Ray didn’t have children of his own, no partner, and absolutely no experience caring for anyone.
But he brought Hannah home to his small house that smelled permanently of coffee, motor oil, and something indefinably steady.
He learned everything about caring for a paralyzed child the hardest way possible.
Ray watched hospital nurses carefully and copied their movements exactly.
He wrote detailed notes in a beat-up notebook about every aspect of Hannah’s care.
How to reposition her body without causing injury or pain.
How to check her skin for pressure sores that could develop from sitting too long.
How to lift her in a way that acknowledged she was both heavy and incredibly fragile.
The first night Hannah came home from the hospital, Ray set his alarm to go off every two hours throughout the night.
He shuffled into her room repeatedly, his hair sticking up in all directions, eyes barely open from exhaustion.
“Pancake time,” he’d mutter, gently turning Hannah to prevent bedsores.
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