For years, my mother-in-law treated every family dinner like a courtroom, and I was always the defendant. I thought her obsession with my son was cruel. I had no idea she was setting a trap that would destroy her own life first.
My mother-in-law, Patricia, has hated me since the day I married Dave.
Not disliked. Hated.
Her favorite hobby was questioning whether my son was really Dave’s.
She is the kind of woman who wears ivory to weddings and then says, “Oh, this old thing? It’s cream.”
The kind who can insult you in a sweet voice and then act shocked when you notice.
Her favorite hobby was questioning whether my son was really Dave’s.
My son, Sam, is five. He has my dark curls, my olive skin, my eyes. Dave is blond and pale.
Patricia never let it go.
“Are we sure about the timeline?”
At family dinners, she would tilt her head and say, “He just doesn’t look like Dave, does he?”
Or, “Funny how genetics work.”
Or, my personal favorite, “Are we sure about the timeline?”
The first few times, I laughed it off. Then I tried being direct.
“That’s a gross thing to say,” I told her once.
Then Dave’s father, Robert, got a terminal diagnosis.
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